Episode 156: The Goodbye Show

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All good things must come to an end, and as such, this is the final episode of the Homeschooling In Real Life podcast. Thank you for hanging in there with us through 155 episodes. It was a great run and we even slipped a final episode in last week before saying goodbye!

Celebrate with us as we say thank you to everyone who has impacted this ministry, from guests to tech help to our in-house babysitters to you, our faithful HIRLers. We'll also leave you with the four things we think made up the heart and soul of our podcast for 155 episodes. Can you guess what they are?

Of course we couldn't end without some good old fashioned fluff and a lot of fun. Listen along and discover how Fletch does not really know the words to Frank Sinatra's "My Way." And for those of you wondering what we've been hinting about, we finally break the suspense and tell you what's next for Fletch and Kendra and the Homeschooling in Real Life crew.

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Episode 154: Avoiding Spiritual Abuse

Episode 154: Avoiding Spiritual Abuse

Spiritual abuse has been alive and well in the homeschool community for years. From early leaders like Bill Gothard/ATI to the deceptive charm of Doug Phillips and the Vision Forum/Family Integrated Church movement, homeschoolers often fall prey to the abuse of misguided leaders.

Joining Fletch and Kendra for the last full episode of Homeschooling in Real Life is Julie Anne Smith from the Spiritual Sounding Board website to discuss openly how the church and homeschoolers still fall into the trap of spiritual abuse.

This just might be our most important episode ever!

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Episode 153: Heart for the World

Episode 153: Heart for the World

Every wonder how to give your kids a healthy love for the world and a desire to know other cultures? How about making missions an every day part of your homeschool and home life? What if you can't travel far from home but want your kids to develop a view that reaches far beyond your hometown?

Join us and Sonlight Curriculum co-founder Sarita Holzmann for a lively discussion on homeschooling, reading, missionaries, biographies, a desire to love the lost, and of course, the gospel. 

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Episode 151: Knights in Training

Episode 151: Knights in Training

Raising boys can be tricky business, no? And if we have a heart to see our boys really change the world with solid character, big ideas, and compassionate hearts, we can feel defeated when we see them being goofy and a little out of control as kids. 

That's exactly why we wanted to have a solid conversation with friend and author Heather Haupt, who has written a book about teaching our boys what it means to take the high road and be "knights" who fight for honor and protect the weak in our world. 

Heather has hands-on tools and plenty of encouragement to share. We love this episode!

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Episode 150: Listener Q&A, Part 2

Episode 150: Listener Q&A, Part 2

Hey! Hey! We’re once again answering listeners' emails on a wide variety of topics this week. Want to know how not to be a homeschool whackjob? Or how to choose a different schooling option without caving to judgmental responses? Chances are, if you’ve had a question for Fletch and Kendra, you’ll hear the answers you’ve been waiting for.

We're also talking about a podcast we think we should never, never do. Tune in!

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Episode 149: Listener Q&A, Part 1

Episode 149: Listener Q&A, Part 1

We’re almost 150 episodes in and the emails keep coming! 

On this week’s episode of Homeschooling in Real Life, we’re answering listeners emails on a wide variety of topics. Judgmental homeschoolers? We got that. Homeschooling high school? Yep, that, too. Chances are, if you’ve had a question for Fletch and Kendra, you’ll hear the answers you’ve been waiting for.

It’s fast-paced, light, sometimes serious, but always with the goal of keeping the main thing the main thing.

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Episode 147: When Homeschoolers Judge

Episode 147: When Homeschoolers Judge

Homeschooling is a choice born out of the freedom to choose what we feel to be the best educational option for our children. It should follow, then that if a family who has made the choice to homeschool then decides to put a child into a traditional school setting, fellow homeschoolers will support that freedom to choose, too.

Unfortunately, that's not the reaction many receive when they announce they'll be returning to school. Instead of encouragement and reassurance, they often receive condemnation from the homeschool community.

What's a homeschooler to do? And what is the Biblical, grace-filled, gospel-centered response as both the homeschooling parent returning kids to a classroom and the homeschooling friend looking on?

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Episode 144: When Your Homeschool Owns You

Episode 144: When Your Homeschool Owns You

Sometimes an idea for an episode comes along and we throw the regular recording schedule out the window! 

When Cindy West reached out to us and asked to talk about something she's seeing in the homeschool community at large, we jumped at the opportunity. And it's this: Some homeschoolers feel they must adhere so closely to a particular homeschool philosophy that they have lost all their homeschool joy. Essentially, their homeschools are owning them.

So what's the remedy? Tune in to "When Your Homeschool Owns You" to find out!

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Episode 143: 5 Apps Every Parent Should Know

Episode 143: 5 Apps Every Parent Should Know

Apps! Mobile phones! iPads! Technology! It all moves so fast and changes seemingly overnight. How do we keep up with what our kids are asking to use or are being exposed to, even if we are trying to keep it all in balance?

Join us on this highly informative episode of Homeschooling in Real Life as we welcome author and speaker Leah Nieman to discuss five apps every parent should know about right now. It's an up-to-the-minute conversation, but even if you're listening months or even years from its publication, you'll be able to glean from the discussion about how to handle all of the emerging technology in our über fast-paced world.

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Episode 142: Parenting: Principles Over Formulas

Episode 142: Parenting: Principles Over Formulas

Parenting formulas tend to make us feel safe: Do it this way, and your children will grow up to be godly/good citizens/intelligent/productive, etc. But is this what God has in mind when he gives us children in our homes?

Join us and author Heather Haupt as we talk homeschooling (she's a homeschool grad), parenting promises, principles, formulas, and the gospel.

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Episode 141: The Working Homeschool Mom

Episode 141: The Working Homeschool Mom

Are you a homeschooling mom who needs to work? Are you contemplating a job alongside homeschooling? Join us for this episode of Homeschooling in Real Life as we talk with Jimmie Lanley, a mom who found the need to be employed but also wanted to continue educating her daughter at home with excellence. 

Jimmie is straight-forward and encouraging as she shares her experience and wisdom with our listeners.

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Episode 140: Love, Honor, and Virtue

Episode 140: Love, Honor, and Virtue

Two of our favorite guests, Hal and Melanie Young, join us on this episode of Homeschooling in Real Life for a candid discussion about technology, temptation, addiction, and culture. We talk about the false sense of security that homeschooling can give us and how we can equip our kids to make choices that set them up for healthy sexual relationships.

As always, Hal and Melanie are engaging and intelligent, and we appreciate their honesty as we discuss a Biblical and God-honoring approach to love, honor, and virtue.

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Episode 139: Homeschooling and Adoption

Episode 139: Homeschooling and Adoption

Since the very beginning of the Homeschooling in Real Life podcast, our listeners have been requesting that we do an episode on homeschooling and adoption. Why did it take us so long? Because just the right person to address the topic came along and we feel we couldn't have given you anyone better!

Guest Tricia Goyer is a prolific author and homeschooling mom, and she and her husband have adopted seven children in the past few years alone! We think you'll be encouraged and inspired by their story, and we hope it helps you to hear the joy that comes from obeying what God asks of us.

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Episode 138: Introducing Mr. D Math

Episode 138: Introducing Mr. D Math

Spend a whole episode introducing you to a guy who teaches math? Why, yes! 

Dennis DiNoia is Mr. D from Mr. D Math, and we wanted our listeners to know all about his truly terrific online live math courses for homeschoolers.

Mr. D has a background in public school education, homeschools his own kids, and know how to teach in a way that inspires and encourages our kids to actually enjoy math, too!

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Episode 137: The Educated Parent

Episode 137: The Educated Parent

We home educators spend a lot of time educating our kids. But what about us? Are we taking the time to learn more, discover more, and be curious? 

This episode of Homeschooling in Real Life is dedicated to you, the homeschooling parent. We want to see you grow and thrive in your role as parent educator, and to that end we're talking about the reasons to educate yourself as well as the how-to. Let's get learning!

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Episode 136: How to Watch TV Without Selling Your Soul

Episode 136: How to Watch TV Without Selling Your Soul

Television, like so much of the technology we enjoy, can be both very, very good and very, very bad. How does a family discern what is worth watching and what should be passed over?

Opinions run high, and the topic of television can quickly divide families, but we'll attempt to answer the question: Is there any redeeming value in having television in your home, or should we avoid this portal into American culture?

Join along and listen as Fletch and Kendra talk openly about welcoming television back into their home and the parameters involved in their decision to navigate culture with a television. This is an episode that is sure to get you thinking and talking.

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Episode 134: Real Encouragement

Episode 134: Real Encouragement

Well, hello 2017! We're back with a brand new season of episodes that we hope will inspire, inform, and encourage you as you walk this homeschooling path with your family. And what better way than to start with an episode meant to encourage you right off the bat?

We're joined by one of our most popular guests from last season, Kathy Lee, who laughs with us, talks homeschooling over two decades, and tells us all what keeps her going. Don't miss it!

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Episode 127: The Desperate Need to Get it Right

Episode 127: The Desperate Need to Get it Right

When we talk about the desperate need to get it right, Fletch is quick to say, “Oh! You mean homeschooling in the age of Pinterest?” On this episode we are talking about how to homeschool when we feel like we just don’t measure up to the other homeschool moms we know.

We are joined in the studio by Kym Smythe, Sabrina Justison and Vicki Tillman, three of the sisters from SevenSistersHomescool.com and The Homeschool Highschool Podcast. We discuss how to handle the competition, comparisons, and the desperate need to get it right.

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Episode 126: Affording College

Episode 126: Affording College

When our students hope to go to college, the perennial question remains: how in the world will they pay for it? We decided to return to the topic of affording college with College Prep Genius Jean Burk because we know she has valuable information to share.

We think you'll be encouraged and feel equipped as you help your college-bound student get the education they are pursuing. Don’t forget to enter the College Prep Genius giveaway below for a valuable one-hour personal coaching session with Jean Burk!

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